CURACAO: 8 Reasons why you should hire a bridal assistant

There are a million reasons why you should have a personal assistant/attendant at your wedding! Having a personal bridal attendant makes you more prepared and stress free. The role will help keep the bride (and her bridal party) at the wedding sane. Let’s rename the position to define it more accurately: supporter, helper, assistant, right-hand person, friend, associate, accomplice… you get the idea.

WHAT DOES A PERSONAL ATTENDANT DO ?

Your personal attendant at your wedding is meant to help keep everyone on schedule, organized, and sane. They are basically your assistant for the day because there is no way for a bride to take care of everything at her own wedding.

This person will be a personal messenger, shoulder to cry on, extra hand, emotional buffer, and more. Of course, you have your family and your bridesmaids around you, but you’ll need a designated assistant for when the rest of your bridal party is performing their other duties. Think about picking up your dress from the dry cleaner. or driving you to the the hair salon, or making sure you look good for pictures at all times!

8 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD HIRE A PERSONAL ATTENDANT?

Most of the times brides tend to choose a dear friend or family member who is trustworthy, honest, and pays close attention to detail. This job seems to be the perfect way to include another bestie or two if you’ve reached your cap on bridesmaids.

But often times brides tend to forget that the bridal party also has their own wedding 'duties'. They also need to get ready, dress themselves, get their hair and makeup done, and at the end of the day they also want to enjoy your wedding and not miss out on your day. That's why it's always important to hire a professional assistant instead. The only difference? She gets to pick her own dress!

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A lot of brides aren’t sure if they want to or should include the position on their big day, but we’re here to give you a few reasons why you totally should!

1. Personal attendant helps keep you on schedule

She’ll make sure you have nothing to stress about. She’s there to take care of last-minute errands that need running. She’ll figure out a secure place to put your gifts. She’s got the transportation of dresses covered. Any other concerns you have? Forget them. Your personal helper is cued up to take care of them all.

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Our tip: If you’re concerned about a thousand little things, make a checklist for your assistant. That way you don’t have to worry about a thing yourself, or about her skipping a beat.

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2. Your personal attendant doubles as personal

messenger

Forget about the details, your personal attendant has your back covered. She’ll be the one coordinating your moves with your fiancé’s to be sure you don’t ruin any special moments. She’ll be your number one communicator on your big day, whether it’s a quick message to the photographer or figuring out details with your venue.

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3. In case of emergency: call your bridal attendant

She has all of your emergency needs on hand, including: hairspray, lipstick, bobby pins, Kleenex, snacks, paracetamol, and more. She can be the keeper of your wedding emergency kit and the person you and your bridesmaids go to when something small goes wrong.

4. You'll need a personal wedding buffer

Your wedding accomplice can be the perfect buffer for situations you just don’t want to deal with. She’s going to be there to keep you stress-free. When you get stuck in a long awkward conversation with a distant relative, she can come save you with an excuse. If you need a moment alone, she will act as a temporary security guard and keep her eye on the door.

5. your bridal attendant will be your 'voice of reason'

She’ll be honest if you’ve got food or makeup stain on your teeth. She'll help you put on your gown, jewelry and shoes. She’ll get you a drink if she sees you losing your patience. She’ll get you water when you’ve had too many drinks. She'll help you look good at all times during your photoshoot sessions. She'll hold your personal stuff, and much more..!

6. An attendant will maintain your hair & makeup

It's hot and you're sweating, your attendant got you covered. She will be there for all makeup touches. Need a little more color on your lips or a touch of blush? She’s got you covered. You’ll hardly need to look in the mirror because your assistant will be sure to have you looking your best at all times.

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7. Someone has to hold your wedding dress in the bathroom!

Have no fear when it comes to your wedding dress. Be sure you’re comfortable with your right-hand person, because they’re going to be your go-to for help—whether that be in the bathroom, the limo, in pictures, or even before you take those first steps down the aisle. She’s going to make sure your dress is fluffed fully and lies perfectly.

8. Your personal attendant will keep you sane!

This gal will be there to give you a giant hug and maybe even a little nudge down the aisle. She’s going to calm all of your nerves, be honest, and keep your head on your shoulders and your eyes on the prize: marrying the man you love! This reason alone should be enough to convince you that this position is a must-have wedding role!

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